Wheels are always a tricky subject as they're very subjective.
I think the top ones don't have a strong enough spoke design and would suit a smaller car like a hatch. The middle ones would probably look superb in 19" but likely too small in 18's
As much as I like the 3rd choice, would they make it look like you're trying to give the car an Audi black edition look? Lovely wheels though
I wonder if you could get the BBS looking ones in different widths to go staggered with wider rears?