Most of the people who buy autos say that. Personally, I enjoy the whole experience of driving and hate anything that takes control away from me and gives it to a computer. I hate electric hand brakes and even automatic wipers and air con which turns itself on if you crank the blower up full. It's my car and I'm perfectly capable of deciding for myself whether or not I want the wipers on or what gear I want to be in and I've never met a computer that agrees with me!
Well as you've started. I fully understand what your saying, took me ages to get used to an auto, I'd not like one without those cool flappy paddles through, of which were better on the Mk.2, but you do learn to control what gear you require and when, so nice when you hit traffic and pop it back into D, all that said, when you jump back into a manual it does make you feel your more part of the car even through you can't change gear as quick.
My Mk.3 has wipers with a mind of their own of which move each time I switch the car on/off, no doubt will have wrecked wiper rubbers when froze to the screen for some, they also either wipe the screen before it needs wiping or until I can hardly see in front of me, quite safe I'm sure. The lights also do there own thing to suit themselves together with the instrument display, only way I know if the lights are on/off is by looking at the two red lights by the map reading lights, quite safe I'm sure.
Hand brake I no longer consider I have unless I'm on a steep hill as a friends wouldn't release, quite safe I'm sure.
Also when I press to recirc. button the a/c switches on so I now have to switch it off, safe I'm sure as now I have to look away from the road once again.
All these features to make us all safer and yet I still run out of screen wash without warning as no low warning light, must be safe I'm sure to just run out 30 miles from the nearest services on a motorway on a damp morning with light spray around with the sun directly on the front of the car.
All that said, easy to criticise any car and no idea what else I'd buy for the money which is so comfortable (although not quite as good for me as the Mk.2) and fuel efficient with I'm sure many other good features..