When I bought my previous car, BMW 118D, it was the first I had bought fitted with stop/start. The difference it made to the official EU figures over the previous spec were big, dropped it from the mid 140's to 119 CO2's with a large saving in RFL. At that time there was very little if any real world info on the affect it had so once summer arrived and daytime temps stabilised I did a couple of fill ups using both stop/start and no stop/start. My commute is about 15 miles each way and takes 30 minutes on an average trip. My stationary time is not great, there are 4 sets of traffic lights and I normally get through 3 sets with 1 or 2 changes, the other set takes probably 3 on average, sometimes 4. About 7 miles of the journey is on 70 mph dual carriageway, the rest is typical village roads (30 mph) with a 3 mile stretch of 50 mph road thrown in.
Using the car with stop/start active over 2 fill ups my records show it averaged 47.8 mpg. With stop/start deactivated it averaged 47.7 mpg. Theses are calculated figures and I accept that they were not obtained in a strict test but since I did about 600 miles in each mode any peaks and troughs would have been averaged out. At that average over a year stop/start would have saved me 0.33 gallons or £1.84 at todays prices. To save a meaningful amount of fuel, say 10 gallons the car would have needed to do nearly 51 mpg.
With the BMW any more than 4 stops in a short stretch of road and the stop/start would fail until the battery again had sufficient charge. If the outside temp was below 4 degrees C the stop/start would be automatically deactivated.
Over the years many more people posted their finding on the BMW website, 99% agreed with my findings that in the real world it did 1/2 of bugger all but all agreed that the saving of over £100 in RFL was worth having.